I was depressed all the time. I felt lonely even with a whole crowd around me, craved for love from someone else and began hating everything about myself including the way I looked. I developed a huge inferiority and it began to show in my work, and as a designer, if there is no quality in your work: then you are nothing. I slowly became unproductive, destructive and angry.
Pain and bliss are inevitable and natural phenomenon and we are naturally gifted to experience these two extreme frequencies. When a child is hurt, then he/she experiences pain and cries out as it experiences pain. As child cries out, pain disappear and next moment child is ready to play again having no impression of fear of pain. Same toy, same kids and child is at same place doing same thing to experience Joy and bliss by being total in that moment of being playful. However that is not how we groom our children. We give them a belief that pain is not good and stay away from people/places/situations which give you pain. While as parents you are right to protect children, but mistake happens when we give a belief that you shall not cry when it pains… be strong… boys shall not cry…
I started my spiritual journey four years ago while attending a yoga workshop in Delhi. At that stage, I wasn’t necessarily searching for a deeper meaning in life, but was simply exploring exercise options which could serve as an alternative to my weekly football matches and frequent visits to the gym. Although yoga was the primary focus of the workshop, the facilitator introduced some basic meditation techniques into the three-day course and I was pleasantly surprised with the results.
Parenting has evolved over a period of time specially in last few decades with nuclear family concept due to urbanization and one could argue if it is for good. We are probably the only generation which is beginning to be obsessed with our children and we are far more non trusting in universe else, as said by Gibran, life was taken as a journey where one does experiences and passes on the wisdom and heritage to children and leaving their journey of life on universe.
I was going through a tough time due to professional and personal setbacks. Even though, I was strong on the outside, the walls inside me were breaking and it felt like I will soon lose my balance and fall. I got up each day with hope in my hopeless mind but by the end of the day, hopelessness conquered every ounce of hope. It wasn’t that I was doing miserable but was unappreciative of what I had and what I was doing. Not that I didn’t have the strength to deal with it but I surely wanted someone, something to make me believe in my strengths and pull me up when I go down.
I was always busy with daydreaming and illusion, visualizing the school days and college days. I was completely ignoring the present life. I believe this has been going on for about 20 years now. Addiction to pornography and masturbation from the past 12 to 15 years made me weak. It didn’t allow to focus on my present and I was finding it big struggle to keep up with my job and daily routine.
Role of a mother is to provide unconditional acceptance called love and role of father is to provide unconditional protection…
A child when born does not have mind,ego and sense of survival. It is being inflicted by parents to create a survivor out of child. This is how a child begins to develop survival instinct at the cost of loosing the state of bliss.
This is what Nostradamus told his son, Caesar, about secret of seeing future. He lived in the 16th century.
“I emptied my soul, brain and heart of all care and attained a state of tranquillity and stillness of mind which are prerequisites for predicting by means of the brass tripod, human understanding being created by intellect cannot see secret things unless helped by voices from a void which is helped in turn by the thin candle flame from which comes a clouded vision of great events, unhappy and important, cataclysmic adventures arriving at the right time.”
In the year 2013, we had set out an objective of doing treatment through a simple workshop and help people heal themselves instead of us healing them. In the year 2014, we conducted workshops in Delhi, Bangalore, Mumbai, Bhilai and Ranchi. With 15 workshops, more than 200 people are now trained and have transformed their life. A small step crawling towards a large beginning. Each workshop is unique in its way and from each, we brought more healing power or…